Get To Know Me (if you dare... ;)
How I transformed from being a 200-pound drug-addicted whore into the world's 1st sober, monogamous, and most interactive pornstar...
I'm Lelu Love, and I know it's cliche, but I really am just a normal girl with a sex site. An average day for me might consist of waking up, answering emails, going to dog training, working out, doing a live sex show
on my site, then watching a movie and going to bed. That's why I love the term sex star that my Lovin's have helped me come up with. I've always been very sexually open, and it's great to now have my site as an outlet and pretty much a documentary of my sex life.
Cum to a live webcam show and I might put YOU all over me
I was born in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina on August 1, 1987, and I now live in Tampa, Florida. I lost my virginity much earlier than most and experimented with a bunch of different sex partners and situations over the years. I've had sex with girls and even dated them, but we are way too much work and drama!! lol I was in an on and off relationship for several years and got in a lot of trouble through my teen years.
I have a very addictive personality and struggled with drug addiction to just about anything I could get my hands on. I started smoking cigarettes and drinking before I was even a teenager. I went through a lot of the awful things that come with drug abuse and the people I was surrounding myself with: fights, death threats, suicide attempts, etc.
With all of the drama and pain, I didn't value myself like I should have, which lead to meaningless sex for validation and overeating until I weighed 200 pounds at only 5'5".
I've lost over 50 pounds since starting the site
Finally, I looked around, saw my surroundings and myself, and I knew that something needed to change. I locked myself in a room for days to keep myself away from any and all drugs. Those were the worst days of my life, with extreme withdrawals to the point that I was violently shaking, sweating, vomiting, and aching all over.
Once I was clean, I severed ties with my ex and just happened to meet B soon after. I had a few setbacks along the way, dabbling in drugs and alcohol for a day or two here and there, but finally learned to replace those addictions with positive habits, and I've now been 100% clean for over five years: stopped smoking about 6 years ago, stopped all drugs about five and a half years ago, and stopped drinking alcohol about 5 years ago.
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Now that I'm actually living life, instead of hiding from it in a drunken, high stupor, this is the happiest I've ever been in my entire life, and I love that I have so many more people to share it with now. Of course, a lot of people just come here to get off and watch me fuck
, which is great (bust some bigs ones for me!! :), but the friends I've made that genuinely appreciate the interaction and everything else in addition to the sex have been even better!!
How LeluLove.com Was Born
I've videotaped myself having sex many times over the years before even thinking about starting a site or anything like this. Sometimes it's just fun to watch yourself!! :) So, one night, B and I just decided to post one of my videos on the internet. It was really more of a crazy, fun idea that we didn't think too much about. I was a little nervous, so I did a masturbation scene
where I didn't even show my face, just the neck down. We posted it on a porn site and thought that would be the end of it...
I woke up the next morning and decided I would check where we posted it just out of curiosity, and there were thousands of views and dozens of positive comments!! I couldn't believe it, and of course I like compliments as much as the next girl. :) From there, we made a few more for fun and for my own ego lol
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It was about a year and several more videos later that we decided to start a website, just as a place to put our videos and have everything in one place. I never had any intention or even thought it was possible to actually make money from what we were doing. I just figured you had to be a big name pornstar or have a contract with a big company to make it anything serious, so for the first few months, we literally lost money putting up new videos and doing live webcam shows almost every day.
There wasn't any option to become a member or anything, just tons of free videos and pictures. It wasn't until a few months in that I got an email from a great guy that basically said he wanted to give me money for all of the great content on the site, just as a thank you for producing it. So, the first VIP member
was actually a volunteer, and I couldn't believe we actually had a "member" to our fun little sex site!!
Then more emails starting coming in, asking how they could contribute, so we added membership and billing and all that technical stuff. All of a sudden we were spending more and more time on the site, and it was such a gradual transition, I can't even remember a moment when it dawned on me that I could actually do this full-time.
Even after putting in the membership system, it was completely voluntary, and I was still giving almost all of the content away for free. It was amazing and humbling that some people were still willing to pay for the same thing that others were getting for free just to show their appreciation.
As the site and traffic grew, we started putting more and more time into it: more videos, more pictures, better equipment, more interaction, higher quality, and more. Before I knew it, I was spending hours a day replying to emails, comments, and messages, while B was spending hours a day doing a lot of the technical behind-the-scenes work.
I'm real AND real serious about giving back
I always have and always will take interaction very seriously, because I believe that if someone is paying their hard-earned money to appreciate what I do, then I want to give them as much value as I can. I've gotten to know so many great people that might have just been considered "random pervs" (we're all pervs!!), and this has been such an amazing ride.
Thanks to all of my amazing members
, I'm now able to concentrate on the site full-time, and I'm always trying to over-deliver and show my appreciation as much as I can. I've applied my addictive personality to the adult industry now, and it's such a fascinating world. I want to change the game and show other sexually open people that you can do what you love with the one you love, make money, and still stay humble and value each and every member and visitor.
This site has done so much for me: boosted my confidence, opened doors and opportunities, improved my sex life, helped me get healthier, kept me motivated, and so much more from all of the wonderful people that take the time to make me smile.
Without you all, there would be no Lelu, and Lelu Love is here to stay!! :)
The Next Chapter...
For those of you that follow my Behind the Porn Scenes with Lelu Love podcast
and my blog
, you probably already know that I had a miscarriage in the early part of 2017.
It was one of the most downloaded episodes of my podcast because I was very vulnerable and shared openly and honestly and can't thank you all enough for all of your kind words and encouragement after that!! :)Listen to "Revealing My Secret Medical Issue From Recent Months – Ep49" here.
It was a super tough time because I was really excited about becoming a mother, but I knew it was for the best, because I rather have to go through that and wait longer for hopefully a happy healthy baby in the future :)
Well that future will be June 2018 if everything continues going great like it is right now. I'm officially pregnant again and into my second trimester with a baby girl!! :)
Baby Bumblebee coming June 2018
I'm excited to share this new journey with you all as my body goes through all sorts of changes.
It's funny because when I started this website I was a lot heavier and unhealthier and have gotten so much healthier along the way and now will have my weight going back up for a while but in a much healthier way and for an amazing reason!! :)